Organizing Tips For

Keeping Kids Busy When They're Not In School

 

While attending the 2008 National Hearts At Home Conference, I sat in on a session where Linda Wicks told attendees about a challenge she implemented to keep her kids busy during summer breaks. I was so excited about the idea that I sat down with my daughters to come up with goals for our own super summer challenge.

 

My intent was to mirror the examples Linda provided on her website but, when I attempted to group the girls' goals by type (arts & crafts, chores, physical activities, etc.), it seemed wrong to limit kingdom work to one or two categories like spiritual growth and serving. I don't want my children to compartmentalize Christianity. It's not something we do on Sunday, it's who I want them to be every day.

 

Wanting to find a verse that encompassed all the categories I wanted to include in this summer's challenge, I visited biblegateway.com and searched for all verses that contained the words heart, mind and soul. Although four verses contained these three words, only one contained the additional two categories I needed to make our summer challenge complete.

 

Luke 10:27 was written in response to a question that an expert in the law asked Jesus.

 

"Teacher," the expert asked in Luke 10:25, "what must I do to inherit eternal life?"

"What is written in the Law?" Jesus asked one verse later.

The expert answered: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'"

"You have answered correctly," Jesus replied. "Do this and you will live."

If this verse describes what we need to do to truly live, then surely it provides the foundation for what we should be teaching our children. For this reason, the super summer challenge became, not just a seasonal activity to keep my children busy, but an attempt to teach them the Luke 10:27 way of life.

 

Read on to see how you, too, can create a summer challenge that teaches your children the importance of loving the Lord our God with all our 1) heart, 2) soul, 3) strength, and 4) mind and 5) loving our neighbor as our self:

  1. Create a list of goals to be achieved and assign a point value to each goal

When I first proposed a summer challenge to my daughters, they were so excited that we sat down that night to create a list of goals to accomplish. The tasks we came up with were a mixture of what they wanted to do and areas I wanted them to work on. Click on the link below to view the initial goals we identified.

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Note 2: If you are asked to enter a password when opening or closing the link, press the cancel button to ignore the prompt.

Summer Challenge Completed Goal Sheet

When setting your child's goals, it helps to think of good habits you would like them to form, new skills you would like them learn, fears they would benefit from overcoming, and new ways they could contribute to the running of your home. To help you get started, click on the link below to save a blank goal sheet to your hard drive.

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Goal Template for Parents with One Child

Goal Template for Parents with More than one Child (print copies as needed)

  1. Calculate the number of points your child will likely earn each week

    After reviewing Katie's and Hollie's goals, I determined that each could potentially earn up to 10 points in a day but, because there will be days when we are busy with out-of-town guests and other activities, I multiplied this number by 4 days per week instead of 7 to arrive at an average of 40 points per week.

     

  2. Determine the number of weeks the challenge will span and the overall point goal

    Because we will be traveling for two weeks in August, we decided that our summer challenge will start on June 1st and end the weekend before we leave on our August trip. Knowing that the challenge will be 10 weeks in length with an average of 40 points per week, the overall challenge goal was set at 400 points per child.

     

  3. Set awards and prizes

    Once our list of goals and the timeline was set, I asked the girls what they would like to work for. Although many children would choose a family trip or a fun activity, both Katie and Hollie opted for items to add to their Webkinz collection. After determining the dollar value of the items purchased (which in our case was $40 per child), I divided the amount spent by the number of weeks in the challenge (which was 10) and concluded that the girls would need to earn $4 each week if they wanted to purchase everything they picked out before the challenge was over. Since we were using a point system and I expected the girls to earn 35 to 40 points per week, we determined that each point would be worth 25 cents.

     

  4. Determine how you will keep track of points

    In her presentation, Linda Wicks suggested using marbles, a graph, or poker chips when working with younger children. Because my daughters are in elementary school, we have decided to use a tally sheet to keep track of goals achieved and the number of points earned. Click on the link below if you would like to do the same.

    Note 1: Microsoft Word must be installed on your computer to open this link.

    Note 2: If you are asked to enter a password when opening or closing the link, press the cancel button to ignore the prompt.

Summer Challenge Tally Sheet

Before you get started, don't forget to review the ideas and sample charts on Linda Wicks' site. She has done a great job of communicating how she has made her family's summer challenge both fun and frustration-free over the years. 

Click on the link below when you are ready to learn more about the Luke 10:27 Summer Challenge:

Summer Challenge Update

 

 
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